Do you know how to pick up girls?
Many guys are out there looking for women to date with yet they have no skills when it comes to becoming a great pickup artist. Whether you choose to look for a serious relationship or if you’re just looking for a quick fling you need to have the skills to grab a girls attention to attract her. There are quite a few things that you can do to pick up women and if you’re not doing any of them at the right time then you’re not ever going to get lucky with someone. I’ve put together a few of the most important tips that some of the pick up artists I know are using today. Here’s a list of a a few key components of being really good at picking up women.
Dress and Look The Part
If you want to attract girls you need to dress attractively. Take a good look at yourself and notice certain factors like your hair, your clothes and complexion. These are all important self factors because looking confident is going to make you feel more confident. That being said, if you’re walking around too scruffy, clean yourself up. Get a good shave and haircut to look more professional. Once you’ve done this I suggest going to a getting a kickass outfit that’s trendy and sharp looking. If you’re not used to throwing on a Hugo Boss suit then do it! Get a nice dress shirt and a nice pair of shoes too. I suggest talking a trip to the closest Nordstrom and finding a hot sales girl there. Ask her for some help and tell her that you have an important date that you really want to look good for. Don’t be shy, just ask her for some help. She’ll be honest and will get you looking as sharp as possible. This store is really great at putting people together to look really fashionable and great.
Practice and Master Your Approach
If you want to be able to pickup women on the fly then you need to practice doing so. Many individuals have what is called “Approach Anxiety” and they can’t even get over the first 30 seconds before fumbling things up. I’d suggest trying to approach at least 5 women per day. Do it in a none creepy but confident way. The more you do this the more comfortable you will be when it comes to encountering someone for the first time. You can especially find women abundant if you live in one of the larger US cities.
Learn to Read People Better
Having confidence simply isn’t enough for you. You need to know how to read people too. The best way to do this is to look into their eyes. Eye contact normally allows you to decipher how someone is feeling. It’s easy to tell what mood someone might be in by simply approaching them and looking into their eyes at first sight. This is also a real winning component to focus on a woman and her eyes versus her other physical attributes. Any other way and she’ll likely write you off just like she wrote off the last guy that approached her.
You should also learn to act happy and humourous. Women love confident men that are funny and can make them laugh. The key here is to not fake it all though. Be genuinely happy and funny, because this is more likely to make someone remember you and want to speak with you. Think about it, if you’re in a bad mood or not friendly why on earth would someone want to communicate at all with you? Exactly, they won’t!
Be Interested and Close Strong
Last but not least, if you want to pick someone up you need to show them that you’re really interested in what they have to say. Don’t text on your phone. Instead, dedicate the short amount of time that you can to them and focus only on them. This will show that you’re a guy that is interested in them and not some chump that is more focused on his Facebook or Instagram page. Last but not least, don’t be afraid to close. If you really like someone and want to take them out then just ask. Make sure you end the conversation asking them how you can have another awesome conversation with them. Or better yet, ask them what’s the best way to get in touch with them. They will appreciate this close, trust me. It will take some time to get this down but you’ll get there after a few days! Just keep practicing and watch how much your confidence builds up. If you can do this then you’ll have so much more success on all the adult dating websites that are out there.