Many people have failed when it comes to online dating. Don’t worry, I’m here to help you succeed. You’re not going to fail because I’m not going to let you. However, there are many that do fail. I’ve covered some of the top reasons why below. Don’t take any of these reasons lightly. In fact, always have them in the back of your head when setting up your profile and trying to communicate with others on Internet dating sites.
Not Being Honest Enough
A lot of the individuals that fail when it comes to dating online do so because they aren’t honest enough when describing themselves. Too many people write bogus profile pages making it seem like they are a completely different person. All that gets uncovered when you meet someone in person for the first time. I’m not telling you to air out your dirty laundry by any means. However, I am telling you to be as honest as possible without scaring someone away. If your goal is to hookup with someone or just have a random sexual encounter with a local then make sure you state that on your profile. Be up front about things, this will increase your chances of getting matched with someone that wants the same thing.
Not Posting A Recent Photo
Many people try to post their absolute best photo as their profile picture. They even date it back years ago to look younger, sexier and do so to attract more individuals. This is a terrible way to do it. Keep your profile picture updated and never use a model shoot image. It will make your profile look fake and you definitely want it to look as real as possible. Don’t wear a hat and feel free to wear as little clothing as possible in your picture. It shows off your assets that much clearer.
Going After One Type of Person
If you didn’t have good luck with a certain type of person, don’t keep searching for that same type over and over. Branch out a little and be more open-minded. This means switching from brunette to blonde or even from dominate to submissive. Just changes things up a bit and you’ll see what happens. It will change your outlook on people as well. I often times switch up the type of person I’m looking for a couple times a month. It’s likely to lead to more individuals contacting you too.
Not Being Yourself
This might be the most important aspect of dating online. Being yourself is so important when it comes to life in general. No one likes a fake or individuals that put on a front. You should always try and attract people by just acting like yourself. I’ve been on so many dates with girls that say one thing and act like another. It’s so annoying and often times makes me want to end the date early, but I like to get laid a lot so I deal with it.
If you can remember these things when using all casual and adult dating sites then I promise your success rate will sky rocket. I’ve followed these rules for a long time now and it’s gotten me laid more times than I can even remember.