Now, we know that some more serious sites like Christian Mingle and eHarmony pride themselves on connecting people with serious intentions. Is it possible that people are lying on these sites about certain things and does it truly impact their dating experiences? More so, could not being truthful may have a negative impact on your casual dating experiences? Find out now!
Adult Dating and Lying Don’t Mix
I’ve been sharing my dating experiences with you for months now and if you’ve heard me say it once you’ve heard it 100 times…be honest with others! This statement holds true even when you’re casually dating or even just looking for a quick fling. According to an article published by Jezebel, a woman revealed her beliefs and truths during her dating escapade and did so only after the third encounter. The result? It ended up costing her time and led to her potential partner running away from her fast!
Now she wasn’t out looking for someone to simply have sex with that night, nor was she looking for some casual but the same principle can and should apply! I use many casual dating sites and I always tell the truth when creating my profile and biography. Whether I’m using an affair dating site or a generalized dating site like Fling, I never lie to my potential partners.
But Why Not?
That’s simple to answer! Lying to those that you’re casually dating is pointless. Remember, many of the individuals that join these types of sites do so in order to connect with other like-minded individuals carrying the same beliefs. They aren’t looking to marry you or have your kids. They want to have sex and move on. That’s right, I said it! Given that it’s such a casual environment, you shouldn’t be lying about anything at all to your potential partner.
I’ve been honest with you about my dating lifestyle and probably more honest than most would ever be when it comes to casually dating so many people using networks online. Just keep it real. It’s not worth doing it any other way and if you want to get laid you better keep it honest. It works for me, trust me!